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Self-Centered Aging versus Selfless Aging

When I was a teenager stepping slowly into adulthood, I often wondered what truly happens when one becomes old. Life, as I observed it, appeared to follow a fixed and relentless trajectory—education, job, marriage, family, possessions. Alongside this ran an unspoken but powerful current of comparison: first with classmates and colleagues, later with cousins, siblings, and finally with those closest to us. The race never paused. There was no finish line, only shifting reference points. During this long and breathless run, I held onto a quiet hope. I believed that with age and experience, people would eventually see the futility of endlessly amassing wealth and status. I imagined that maturity would bring a widening of vision—that people would recognize real wealth in humane relationships, empathy, and a deeper connection with the world beyond themselves. What I witnessed instead was deeply unsettling. Many of those I observed—people entering their sixties, seventies, eighties, and...
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Experience of Durga Puja Celebration in Margao, Goa

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Durga Puja, also known as Navratra, Vijayadashami, or Dasara, is one of India’s most celebrated religious festivals, symbolizing the victory of good over evil — Lord Rama’s triumph over Ravana and Goddess Durga’s victory over Mahishasura. This age-old festival has something for everyone — from children enjoying the vibrant melas, lights, and food, to spiritual seekers who observe deep penance, fasting, and introspection over the nine sacred days. Across India, the celebration takes many forms. In West Bengal, Durga Puja is the heart of cultural life — every lane and locality sets up beautifully themed pandals and idols of Goddess Durga. In Bihar, Uttar Pradesh, and other northern states, too, the festival holds immense significance. In the south, Mysore Dasara and the Kullu Dasara of Himachal Pradesh are equally grand, drawing devotees and visitors from far and wide. This year, I had the opportunity to spend the first few days of Navratra in Goa, and it was a beautiful experience t...
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Goa Beyond Beaches: The Hidden Spiritual Soul of India’s Western Coast

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Goa: Beyond the Beaches — A Continuing Spiritual Journey Goa — that small, sun-washed state on India’s western coast- is often imagined as a paradise of beaches, seafood, and fun living. Yet beneath that lies another Goa: serene, soulful, and steeped in centuries of devotion and tradition. Its history stretches far beyond the shimmering shoreline — from being part of the Mauryan Empire in the 3rd century BCE to flourishing under ancient Hindu dynasties between 1000 and 1200 AD, followed by the rule of the Adil Shahs, and then over four centuries of Portuguese influence. This long and layered past has given Goa a unique cultural rhythm — one where temple bells and church choirs seem to coexist in harmony after its liberation from Portuguese rule in 1961. When India became independent in 1947, Goa still remained under Portuguese control. It was only in 1961 that it found its own freedom — and since then, the transformation has been remarkable. Today, Goa offers world-class tourism infr...
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The Inner Landscape: Solitude, Silence, and the Architecture of Happiness

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The power of silence and solitude is not easily felt. For roughly one decade, I have been trying to experience this elusive state. I explored several manners of techniques and tools, yet it continues to elude me. I spent considerable time in the Himalayas, embarked on several long solo journeys both within country and abroad, read countless books and articles, and practiced meditation and yoga. Throughout this journey, I try to develop a non-reactive mindset while continuing to work. What amazes me in this process is that the murmuring self never allows you to rest in silence, even in the deep mountains where you are completely alone. What I come to understand is that the inner self is the primary obstacle to meaningful silence and solitude. I try to work on this realization, observing all sorts of communication with my inner self while trying not to be reactive or repetitive. It remains a work in progress, but the initial results are bit positive. In this process, I learned to mai...
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