Expectations Kills the Joys of Life
Expectations in any form from others are biggest cause of unhappiness without others knowing it. We create a personality and situation of others which suits us or which makes us happy. Having expectations is not a bad thing but when it falls short it becomes negative and makes one judgemental, critic and much more depending upon the nature of expectations and creates a mess out of it and sew own web of negativity out of unmet expectations of close relationships. The best way forward is to have expectations from others but when it is unmet don't punish yourself it is not your fault. It teaches that having no expectations from others are the ideal situation one should work for and if not then move on forgive and forget. I also had my share of such experiences of several unmet expectations from many close relationships and friendship in which escape was not an option but to find out ways to accept it and move. Many a times I was intentionally kept excluded, unwanted which I ...