DNC

DNC for toxic people
It is a long time , self imposed restraining order . DO NOT CONTACT (DnC) means exactly that. No contact with toxic people. This includes no conversations ,no texting,no phone calls , no face time. Both ways.
You will see and feel the outcome.

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